{"id":579,"date":"2023-05-18T07:05:25","date_gmt":"2023-05-18T07:05:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/slowself.co.uk\/?p=579"},"modified":"2023-05-18T07:50:12","modified_gmt":"2023-05-18T07:50:12","slug":"parent-domination-over-children","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/slowself.co.uk\/ko\/2023\/05\/18\/parent-domination-over-children\/","title":{"rendered":"\uc790\ub140\uc5d0 \ub300\ud55c \ubd80\ubaa8\uc758 \uc9c0\ubc30"},"content":{"rendered":"<style>\/*! elementor - v3.13.2 - 11-05-2023 *\/\n.elementor-widget-image{text-align:center}.elementor-widget-image a{display:inline-block}.elementor-widget-image a img[src$=\".svg\"]{width:48px}.elementor-widget-image img{vertical-align:middle;display:inline-block}<\/style>\n<p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"819\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/slowself.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/1-819x1024.png\" alt=\"\" loading=\"lazy\" srcset=\"https:\/\/slowself.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/1-819x1024.png 819w, https:\/\/slowself.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/1-240x300.png 240w, https:\/\/slowself.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/1-768x960.png 768w, https:\/\/slowself.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/1.png 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 819px) 100vw, 819px\" \/><br \/>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"819\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/slowself.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/32-819x1024.png\" alt=\"\" loading=\"lazy\" srcset=\"https:\/\/slowself.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/32-819x1024.png 819w, https:\/\/slowself.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/32-240x300.png 240w, https:\/\/slowself.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/32-768x960.png 768w, https:\/\/slowself.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/32.png 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 819px) 100vw, 819px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/p>\n<p>I would love to share real-life situations on how red-blue conflicts could appear so you will better understand how these states govern us.<\/p>\n<p>A family situation that illustrates the conflict between the red and blue levels of Spiral Dynamics is a <strong>parent-child relationship<\/strong> in which the parent is operating primarily from a blue-level perspective and the child is operating from a red-level perspective.<\/p>\n<h2>The POWER of teenagers<\/h2>\n<p>Imagine a teenage child who is <em><strong>asserting their independence<\/strong><\/em> and pushing back against their parent&#8217;s authority. The child is focused on pursuing their own desires, which is characteristic of the red level. The parent, on the other hand, typically focuses on <em><strong>maintaining order and discipline<\/strong> <\/em>and would love the child to live by the established rules and values. Strictly blue. <strong><em>&#8220;Do it this way because I said so&#8221;.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>This conflict could manifest in a number of ways. Labeling gives it usually away on what level are we operating in a conflict.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>The parent may view the child&#8217;s behavior as <strong>disrespectful or disobedient<\/strong>, while the child may view the parent&#8217;s rules and restrictions as overly <strong>rigid or oppressive<\/strong>.<\/li>\n<li>The parent may try to enforce their authority through <strong>punishment or discipline<\/strong>, while the child may resist these efforts and do as they will.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>In resolving these types of conflicts both the parent and child need to recognize and appreciate the positive aspects of each other&#8217;s perspective. As a\u00a0 parent, you can acknowledge the importance of your child&#8217;s need for independence and self-assertion, while your lovely child could try to acknowledge the importance of following rules, and thinking outside of their box.<\/p>\n<p>As a family, you all can benefit from engaging in practices that support the development of higher levels of consciousness, such as empathy, compassion, and open-mindedness.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><strong>Playing board games is one the trendiest way to do this. Talking about important moral issues, broadening your kids&#8217; perspective with interesting ideas, and discussing movies are all great start to discussing these topics rather than bringing up why they didn&#8217;t do the house choirs again. <\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>By cultivating a greater sense of understanding and acceptance of each other&#8217;s perspectives, your family can move beyond the conflict between red and blue and create a more harmonious and supportive family dynamic.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I would love to share real-life situations on how red-blue conflicts could appear so you will better understand how these states govern us. A family situation that illustrates the conflict between the red and blue levels of Spiral Dynamics is a parent-child relationship in which the parent is operating primarily from a blue-level perspective and [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[24,25],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-579","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-coaching","category-spiral-dynamics"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/slowself.co.uk\/ko\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/579","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/slowself.co.uk\/ko\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/slowself.co.uk\/ko\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/slowself.co.uk\/ko\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/slowself.co.uk\/ko\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=579"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"https:\/\/slowself.co.uk\/ko\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/579\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":593,"href":"https:\/\/slowself.co.uk\/ko\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/579\/revisions\/593"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/slowself.co.uk\/ko\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=579"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/slowself.co.uk\/ko\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=579"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/slowself.co.uk\/ko\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=579"}],"curies":[{"name":"\uc6cc\ub4dc\ud504\ub808\uc2a4","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}