{"id":848,"date":"2026-03-23T10:05:56","date_gmt":"2026-03-23T10:05:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/slowself.co.uk\/?p=848"},"modified":"2026-03-23T10:05:56","modified_gmt":"2026-03-23T10:05:56","slug":"its-not-about-the-coffee-its-about-the-conversation-before-it","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/slowself.co.uk\/ko\/2026\/03\/23\/its-not-about-the-coffee-its-about-the-conversation-before-it\/","title":{"rendered":"\ucee4\ud53c \uc790\uccb4\uac00 \uc911\uc694\ud55c \uac8c \uc544\ub2d9\ub2c8\ub2e4. \ucee4\ud53c \ub9c8\uc2dc\uae30 \uc804\uc5d0 \ub098\ub204\ub294 \ub300\ud654\uac00 \uc911\uc694\ud55c \uac70\uc8e0."},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"wp-block-group alignfull is-layout-flow wp-block-group-is-layout-flow\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-group alignfull has-global-padding is-layout-constrained wp-container-core-group-is-layout-40b5fae2 wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\" 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